The serene versus the unlucky

 ( "  I watched a video of advices for making an Eurovision song   https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Cv6tgnx6jTQ&list=RDeBnsMKLIQ9o&index=3&pp=8AUB 

It brought to my mind that peace is often not in a situation called peaceful but instead when one oneself is strong and serene and for the good of the world, see my text "An ok angel" https://asorcerer.blogspot.com/2024/04/traditional-finnish-harmony-learned.html .  

"  "  ( The Finnish word for an angel is "enkeli", in which "en" means "No, I am not...", and "keli" means weather to travel in, and those both have to be taken into account: freedom to folliw one's likibgs in miral ways, and takkng the situations into account, the situations of all, and folliwing civiluced valyes and healthy wisdom of life. )

27th of April 2024    Learned from changing weathers demanding individual judgement to stay alive, like the melting of the ice cover of a lake in the spring time. 

16th of April 2024   First, follow civiliced values with good quality. Then have some independency, the right to refuse, so as to have some personal fracturelessness and healthy kibd of wisdom in lufe choices. Pay attention to weather like situatiobs: does the thing seem good, wished for in tge world, and for you right now, and for others, kibd of taking the ibfo of feelibgs into accoubt well, since often drawbacks are difficult to put to words, since those are often in another perspective or side or between perspectives, but kind of felt atmospheric fracturelessness in how one is in a landscape may help one notice such and take them wusely into account. 

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In some loose group all following fully the above advices, would maybe bring traditional Finnish type of harmony. " 

Love on the other hand is often when one wishes well for the world, chooses one's courses in life and in the world wisely, but adjusts the amounts, types and exact places of each thing in one's life according to what feels to be good that moment and for one's life at large, see in my text about the singing experience of life https://finnishskills.blogspot.com/2015/11/healthy-ways-of-living.html , was it points 66. - 67. 

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66. Sparklingly fascinating human relationships
If one is one's true self in one's human relationships, in one's everyday life encounters, the others too have their characteristics. So if one goies along with them somewhat, the amount like most fascuinates in each type of characteristic, always only for a few minutes or like feels best for onself and is natural. Then one can from one's human cantact each one learn something about life, even if one were different from the other one and even if the others were not so wise and fascinating ordinarily.
So one learns about life, lives a fascinating everuday life, and from each person one can choose which characteristics are like what I am interested in and which get löeft further away. In this way one sometimes gets sparklingly fascinating human relationships, but that means that one should not be rigid, formal or lie to oneself.

67. With things it is the same: if you can yourself choose the distance and how much you associate with them, things are much more fascinating. 

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 I  was left thinking of my blog text "Peace, peace, love, love" that it is kknd of serene and on strong grounds, ought to be well working in the world, and as such kind of lucky. And much of tgat is from the Finnish cultural inheritage. Why is it then so tgat Finns seem unlucky? Did some unlucky person write about the Finnish cultural inheritage and about tge Finnish nature? Like when I was a child in school age my mom and my luttle brother said they trued makkng slme modern versions of Kalevala's poems, quite of the beginnkng my mom said and my brother said he had work like gone through more since it was interesting. Modern versions of old Finnish type of piems they said but they wete not wise, more like technical and searching for single points to be their type of input, as if such too were wise. So were ghere expressions like "on the long yards of the air / of being without" where a long yard is maybe an expressiln copied from a bird but too technical, too concentrated on amount of something, to bring floyrishing nature, but instead it seemed like a scarce milutary edtimate without many factors estimated in any wsy. And as a bird's view it mentilns a bird only as a part of some part of the landscape, instead of holistically wise like is usually the reason to respect birds. 

These in contrast with "a hymn about the instinctual wisdom of our species" which might have been my father's view copied from the nature sciences, from the Finnish cultural inheritage anf from what he felt to be a good wise objective point of view in humans' pictures of the world.